Relationally successful men and women honor traditional gender roles in their relationships. In concrete terms, this means that men are in their masculine energy and women are exercising their feminine power.
A masculine man displays the following characteristics and is:
- Clear in which direction he wants to go and in his communication.
- Respectful.
- Consistent.
- Well-founded.
- He puts bread on the table (provider; can also be in energy, time, love, ...) and protects (protector).
- He takes the lead.
- He has healthy boundaries.
A feminine woman displays the following characteristics and is:
- Gentle and caring.
- Sensual and playful.
- Respectful.
- Grateful and supportive.
- “Submitted” (surrendered).
- Radiant.
- Clear in her communication.
Relationships today are very challenging because of an imbalance in the male-female polarity mentioned above.
This polarity is a law of nature and is necessary so that both parties feel good in the relationship and, as a result, together, can reach unseen heights.
Just as plus and minus generate electricity, so does this in relationships. Without this polarity, both parties (unconsciously) do not feel good and it will be a tug and pull for a long-lasting and loving relationship. This often manifests itself in many (heavy) arguments or silence. Both detract from what could possibly be.
If you are single, it is important to position yourself in the market from the healthy polarity. If you are in a relationship, it is important to ask yourself where you are in this polarity. Once you have the answer, lovingly bend it to a more balanced and healthy male-female dynamic.
There is a catch though. This is a very vulnerable process, for both women and men. As soon as you choose a healthy relationship polarity, you will encounter yourself. In addition, you can sometimes experience a lot of resistance from your partner.
The importance and added value of this male-female polarity are often unknown and can initially come across as offensive. The other party may think that he/she is not good enough as he/she is and/or that he/she must change to meet.
This is not the case. It is about; bringing out and emphasizing your naturally innate and present masculinity and femininity.
As a result, as a single, you attract your opposite polarity. That is, a masculine man or a feminine woman.
As a couple you sink a level deeper and experience more love in your relationship.
Finally, this process takes patience and time. Don't be too hard on yourself. This is a process of trial and error. The key to success is to make it a conscious process.
Astrid Niels is a certified coach (PCC level) according to the International Coaching Federation (ICF). She guides successful business women in finding and keeping the right partner by landing and living in love.
Read also the blog about self-love that Astrid wrote for the WAY OF LIFE platform.
Follow Astrid Niels daily via her socials or visit her website .
A masculine man displays the following characteristics and is:
- Clear in which direction he wants to go and in his communication.
- Respectful.
- Consistent.
- Well-founded.
- He puts bread on the table (provider; can also be in energy, time, love, ...) and protects (protector).
- He takes the lead.
- He has healthy boundaries.
A feminine woman displays the following characteristics and is:
- Gentle and caring.
- Sensual and playful.
- Respectful.
- Grateful and supportive.
- “Submitted” (surrendered).
- Radiant.
- Clear in her communication.
Relationships today are very challenging because of an imbalance in the male-female polarity mentioned above.
This polarity is a law of nature and is necessary so that both parties feel good in the relationship and, as a result, together, can reach unseen heights.
Just as plus and minus generate electricity, so does this in relationships. Without this polarity, both parties (unconsciously) do not feel good and it will be a tug and pull for a long-lasting and loving relationship. This often manifests itself in many (heavy) arguments or silence. Both detract from what could possibly be.
If you are single, it is important to position yourself in the market from the healthy polarity. If you are in a relationship, it is important to ask yourself where you are in this polarity. Once you have the answer, lovingly bend it to a more balanced and healthy male-female dynamic.
There is a catch though. This is a very vulnerable process, for both women and men. As soon as you choose a healthy relationship polarity, you will encounter yourself. In addition, you can sometimes experience a lot of resistance from your partner.
The importance and added value of this male-female polarity are often unknown and can initially come across as offensive. The other party may think that he/she is not good enough as he/she is and/or that he/she must change to meet.
This is not the case. It is about; bringing out and emphasizing your naturally innate and present masculinity and femininity.
As a result, as a single, you attract your opposite polarity. That is, a masculine man or a feminine woman.
As a couple you sink a level deeper and experience more love in your relationship.
Finally, this process takes patience and time. Don't be too hard on yourself. This is a process of trial and error. The key to success is to make it a conscious process.
Astrid Niels is a certified coach (PCC level) according to the International Coaching Federation (ICF). She guides successful business women in finding and keeping the right partner by landing and living in love.
Read also the blog about self-love that Astrid wrote for the WAY OF LIFE platform.
Follow Astrid Niels daily via her socials or visit her website .
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