It can be difficult to maintain or start a good love relationship in today's society. Of course, there are several factors that contribute to this, such as: communication, expectations, technology, (financial) stress and changes in life phase.
Despite these challenges, it is possible to maintain a strong love relationship. Leading relationship coach Astrid Niels gives you handy tools to get started with right away in the latest blog.
To all the businessmen who have told me “my love life isn't what I want it to be and I don't understand why.”
Below I compare running a (potentially) successful relationship with running a successful business. They are identical.
Business enterprise
Current situation: the (logistics) department is not working. (tangible)
Ideal situation: the (logistics) department is running smoothly. (tangible)
To do's:
1. Identify the cause why the (logistics) department is not working. (tangible)
2. Offer strategies on how it could work better. (tangible)
Results:
1. Primary benefits - clock-working (logistics) department. (Tangible)
2. Co-benefits - motivated employees and satisfied stakeholders (Intangible/tangible)
Romantic venture
Current situation: You attract women who want you for what you have and/or your status instead of who you really are. (intangible)
Ideal situation: attracting the right woman. (intangible)
To do's:
1. Identify the reason why you attract that type of women. (intangible)
2. Offer strategies on how to turn that into a positive. (intangible)
Results:
1. Primary Benefits - You will attract the woman of your dreams. (tangible)
2. Side benefits - more energy and creativity, satisfaction and experiencing more love and lust. (intangible)
Finally - if you can't determine why you attract that type of woman, hire someone who can. Your time is precious. Your (love) life is precious.
About Astrid
Astrid Niels is a certified coach (PCC level) according to the International Coaching Federation (ICF). Before she entered the private world, she was a coach for large companies such as Fluxys and Colruyt Group, entrepreneurs (co-partners) and companies with different family generations (grandfather-grandson). She was and is the rock-solid cement between both parties. In 2022, she completely changed course and left the corporate world behind to teach coachees how to experience more love for themselves, together and with others. You can contact her at astrid@happythinking.me and/or via LinkedIn/ Instagram . She will be happy to speak to you.
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